Category Archives: About Humans

Genders & The Power of Sex

We know how much men tend to Sex appeal. When men are exposed to women bare in any way, shape or form, they get aroused. It doesn’t take too much for a man to feel aroused when there is any skin showing on a woman.

Women, on the other hand, are not as easily touched. This being said, a man can walk naked in a room and it won’t drive her nuts, whereas a women knows what she is doing when she walks naked into a room. He wants her.

It’s just the way the gendered brain works. Sex is on a man’s mind almost 24/7 if not to say a full 24/7. It not their fault, it’s just the power of hormones and our nature. Men are sexual beings, more so then women. Studies have shown it too. The thing is, studies have also shown that women get aroused on effects beyond their acknowledgement, they get physiologically aroused without knowing they do. But that is a study on its own for another day.

This is to show that women are not as sexually compelled by the power of visualization as men are. This explains as well the power of the man’s second brain. Enough said.

Watch this, you will be impressed with the findings.

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Goals Goals Goals

“Confusion of goals and perfection of means seems, in my opinion, to characterize our age.” – Albert Einstein

It is sad what this world has become.

What are your goals? Do you know then? Do you have any?

You might if you actually took the time to think about it… But no, your too busy making the *big bucks* and probably still not achieving it.

Life is not about the money.  Money is evil, money is a distraction, focus on what’s important. Goals.

If you find a goal that can give you drive. follow that road. It leads to happiness, money is only temporary happiness, if any.

So I say to you on this Wednesday morning. Find your Goals and follow them. Find your happiness and stop seeking the perfection of means.

Have a great Wednesday!

Do It Anyway!

Doing the right thing… I admit can sometimes be very difficult sometimes, and even less beneficial than you would hope.

As human beings, we are selfish, it is normal to be selfish, however doing the right thing must be selfless sometimes and for some it is easier than others.

Are you that person? Can you be selfless and sacrifice for the right purpose, for the right moral? If this is not you, don`t be too hard on yourself, it`s normal.

However, make it your purpose today to live out Wellness in your day and do something selfless. Wake up and go feed someone that has no food to eat, give money to someone that can`t afford to do something on the weekend. Take someone out of their depression for a day and make them smile, shelter a homeless person, Make someone smile with a joke, forgive someone that has wronged you, cheer up someone  with a compliment. Just make this day for others around you and think of Infinite ways to make someone`s day better. This does not have to be someone you know or someone that deserves it… Find someone that needs it, a friend, a stranger, an enemy, JUST FIND SOMEONE THAT NEEDS YOU.

 

BE THE CHANGE YOU WISH TO SEE IN THE WORLD, as Ghandi said it… You dont need someone to lead, you make the difference you want!

! INSPIRE !

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Divorce Should Not Be Instinct!

Divorce can seem simple right…
Two people no longer love each other and chose to move on without one another. Life is too short,  divorce is the answer…

Sure…

Divorce nowadays is an answer to anything and everything gone wrong.

People don’t even try anymore and decide it’s Over because that *Spark* is no longer there, or that *Love* is lost …. but what is the meaning of Love?

Here we are in 2015…. Divorce rates are off the walls and people make that the solution to something so normal.

Love needs work….
Respect needs work….
Trust needs work…
CHILDREN….. need work, love, trust and example!

Are we showing an example to our children when we are divorcing?

This is not to say Divorce is never an answer to a broken marriage… but think twice about the reason why this marriage is breaking… and if divorce in fact is the solution …

In this day in age…. people don’t seem to think about what they are leaving behind and who they are affecting…. if you have Children. .. it is ten times harder and making a decision to get a divorce should not be taken lightly… Here is a quick video about what Divorce can do to children.

Think about Divorce…

Is it really the answer? 
Or do you just need work?

http://www.lifehack.org/276616/this-voice-the-child-divorce-will-make-you-rethink-the-meaning-marriage?mid=20150623&ref=mail&uid=393464&feq=daily

Let’s not forget…

Water is bigger than You!

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Let me tell you something about water…

Without it you don’t live
Without it you can’t stay healthy
Without it you can’t lose weight
Without it you Feel weak
Without it You are not whole
Your body is mostly made up of water mass and without it you will not survive.
Without Water, your body stops working properly.

Enough about what lack of water causes.

Let’s see if you are drinking enough of it.

Follow this link and let me know if I have made a few things clearer for you.

http://www.lifehack.org/articles/lifestyle/14-signs-youre-not-drinking-enough-water.html?mid=20150521&ref=mail&uid=393464&feq=daily

Now. DRINK MORE WATER!!!

There is Creative People… and There’s The Others…

This article hit home for me….

What creative people do…. and what they do to you…. Hmmm….

You gotta Love them but GOD you want to kill them!!!!

I know two AMAZING and CREATIVE individuals and Yes!  All true! but you Love them Hate them and Envy them All at the Same time! but GOD they strain a relationship. 

if you are not understanding … please take 2 minutes to read this article.

It made me Smile!!!!!!

http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/20-things-remember-you-love-highly-creative-person.html?mid=20150409&ref=mail&uid=393464&feq=daily

Are You a Proud of Your Multitasking Skills?

What is one of your greatest skills that you will bring to this company? Interviewer asks.

I have strong Multitasking Skills. Interviewee answers

That’s a bonus for any company right?

WRONG.

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Researchers found that people who are regularly bombarded with several streams of electronic information cannot pay attention, recall information or switch from one job to another as well as those who complete one task at a time.

Multitasking kills performance and may damage your brain, science says.

WHY? It reduces efficiency and performance because trying to do two things at once bombards you, and the brain can’t focus on two things fully at once.

More so, it lowers IQ, because your cognitive capacity is being diminished as you are not fully there, causing less brain density in the interior cingulate cortex, which is a region responsible for empathy as well as cognitive and emotional control.

Science shows that Multi-taskers are not good at paying attention, recall information, or quickly switching from one task to another.

And Multitasking causes low self and social awareness, as it it slows you down and diminished your cognitive capacity.

Read/Listen to this and see what you are doing to your brain and your success when multitasking…

http://www.entrepreneur.com/article/244376

https://umano.me/c/wV1vp/multitasking-can-damage-your-brain-and-career-studies-say

P.S. I was multitasking while writing this blog. Hmmmm.

I completely understand this article and fully believe in it. I am a multitasker, and I will work on it, I must change it.

Do you want to take on this challenge with me?

Why Humans DownLoad Slower!

Download huh? What is this girl talking about!

Ya, ya, Download, Grow, Develop, exactly that.

Why are we different than animals? Why are new born horses able to start running as soon as they are born? Why are birds able to hunt for themselves as soon as they are hatched? Why are we not as smart right away? Interesting questions right? Well this is why…

It has all to do with our mother. Harsh huh?

I don`t want to break the ice; read this article (or listen) to learn something quite outstanding…

http://nautil.us/blog/why-are-you-so-smart-thank-your-mom–your-difficult-birth?utm_source=pocket&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=pockethits

https://umano.me/c/4LZDL/why-are-you-so-smart-thank-your-mom-your-difficult-birth

Enlightening?

Enjoy the rest of your day!

 

“When Making Your Choice in Life, Do Not Forget to Live”

Samuel Johnson best said it,

When Making Your Choice in Life, Do Not Forget to Live.

As philosopher Renata Salecl states, we are so focused on personal choices, that we forget to make the important choices, the social ones.  We feel anxious because we have choices thinking that this choice is essential to our future, when in reality, it is much simpler to choose what is simple and rational.

Choices of what to make of our life, choices of what to eat, what to buy, how to live, where to live; these are all choices that cause anxiety and stress. Why must it be that difficult? Why not focus on something rational and do it.

Salecl also talks about how some of us prefer to be ignorant than have knowledge. What does she mean? Would you rather live your life ignorant about having an illness or would you like being advised if you are sick, so that you have the choice to treating yourself? This can be different for many people… Think about it… Tell me this, would you rather be told when you will die? Or are you the type of person that would rather not know and live life until it ends? These are big questions, what kind of person are you?

Now, back to every day choices. Do I need that bigger car? Does it matter if my food is not what I expected? Does it matter if I will look different to people? These are all situations that do not need to be taken to the extremes because of what you think you want or what you think other people would want from you.

Life can be simple, our minds can be reasonable, and we can be relaxed, however as humans, we complicate things. Why? Because we can! Because we have the choice! Choices can be bad; they can really play with your mind and you health.

SO….. Don’t bring yourself to the ground with choices, live life simple. When put in the position of choice, stress on the important ones, not the insignificant ones. You can make a difference in the social world, not in your selfish sphere.

 

Choices… Yes, I am victim of this. It is for this reason that I am very enthusiastic about the topic of choices, so take this serious, because it really makes a difference.

 

Please take a few minutes to watch this video and think clearly…. Are you guilty?

https://embed-ssl.ted.com/talks/renata_salecl_our_unhealthy_obsession_with_choice.html

 

So remember…  Save your anxiety… Make the right Choice!

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Why Should We Go On?

I recently saw this video about what this life has become and it inspired me to share, so this may touch many of you but hey, reality sucks huh…

Take a second to watch this:

Make a difference Much?