Category Archives: Help

Something New?

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5 Ways To Tell If You Need A Career Change, what a great article today.
A friend of mine inspired me to write this, she has been struck with a life decision that can change her whole entire life, but you know what, there is nothing wrong with being scared, it makes you human. Happiness, it is a big factor in your wellness and in your health, and you must always put that first.We have all been through troubled times where we doubt, we question, we need better answers….Do you need a career change? Are you happy with what you are doing? Are you depleted and over it?

I’m 36 and work in a mid-level corporate role.  I know I don’t like my work (and haven’t liked it for more than 5 years or so), and things are not going great at the company, but it pays very well, has good benefits and there are some things that are OK about it (mostly that it pays a regular paycheck that feels “secure”).  I was promoted recently too, but still I agonize daily whether I should change careers or just leave it alone and stick with it.  How can you tell if you should change careers or not? 

Should I stay or should I quit?
Here are five ways to tell if you NEED something new.
1. You are chronically worn out, exhausted and depleted: if you get home and your body is broken down and cannot think of doing anything else, you have depleted yourself to the point of exhaustion.
Your body tells you what your lips cannot.
2. Your skills, responsibilities, and tasks are not you at all: Do you care about what you are doing? Is it YOU? Do you have what you do, find it useless or worthless? Do you see yourself wanting to make a bigger difference? You may really be in the wrong field.
3. You’ve come to the point where your salary no longer makes up for the boredom and emptiness you feel: The money can make you *happy* for so long, but are you over it? Is material no longer satisfying you? Sometimes, making less money can make you much happier than making more, and you need to make that decision. Is the money keeping you stuck in your position?
Hang on here – I have this money, but I hate how I spend my life making it.
4. Despite all the “right” choices you made in your career, the outcome feels very wrong:  You have worked so hard to be where you are, but you HATE where you landed. Yes, that is so possible and you know, you need to be brave enough to acknowledge that. you need to know when what you believed was for you, is NOT YOU AT ALL, and that is totally fine. Life is not always what we seem it to be, and this is what life is all about, change, new, experience, learning.
5. You have the irrepressible feeling that your talents and abilities could/should be used in a totally different (more creative and impactful) way: If you are thinking, there is more to life than what you are doing, then there very much may be. Listen to your gut, don’t lie to yourself.
There’s another way to live and work, even though you can’t see it yet.
So, you have been given a quick glimpse of reality. Life, career, happiness, they all need to intertwine, you cannot be happy if you hate what you do 8 or more hours of your day. If you feel this article has given you an eye opener then maybe you needed one. Wake up, Make a Change. Life is too short to live it on a candle waiting to be burned out. You need fire, you need happiness, you need a good life, you only get it once.
I hope you have found yourself a little more today. Have a great Sunday!
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E.F.T. – A Mind and Body Medicine

Emotional Freedom Techniques, or EFT (often known as Tapping or EFT Tapping), is a universal healing tool that can provide impressive results for physical, emotional, and performance issues. EFT operates on the premise that no matter what part of your life needs improvement, there are unresolved emotional issues in the way. Even for physical issues, chronic pain, or diagnosed conditions, it is common knowledge that any kind of emotional stress can impede the natural healing potential of the human body.

EFT is an emotional version of acupuncture, except without needles. Imagine this… You get acupuncture, which hits specific pressure points in the body, however, without needles. You can do this on your own, for free. Just check out this YouTube video. EFT can be used for so many diseases, phobias, trauma, pain and general emotional pain. So if you have ran out of options, look into EFT.

Read this article for more details on What is EFT? I can tell you so much but in reality, it’s better to hear it from the founder than from me.

But I will tell you one thing, you might not believe it, but just TRY IT.

EFT’s foundation comes from a common sense blend of Acupuncture and Mind-Body Medicine, both of which have decades of scientific studies supporting them. Their effectiveness has been so profound that prestigious institutions such as Stanford, Harvard and many other universities, clinics and hospitals have chosen to use and/or study them. Just do an internet search for terms such as “Mind Body Research” and “Acupuncture Research” and you will be exposed to the huge warehouse of scientific studies that validate the EFT Tapping underpinnings.

So Scientists are confirming this method, read this article pointing this out at  http://innersource.net/ep/images/stories/downloads/Acupoint_Stimulation_Research_Review.pdf

See how:

INSPIRE!

Are you feeling negative, stressed, lonely, overwhelmed or simply nonchalant?

That’s okay, because I’ve got 7 videos to uplift you in matter of minutes, and I promise that if the first 6 videos don’t succeed, the last one will do miracle work. I am listening to it as I write this and I can tell you I am feeling various different emotions at this time and I don’t want to stop listening.

Please take the time, if you can, to watch all 7 videos, because though they all tend to reach you to a different emotional state, they each have a purpose and can help you in your day to day lives.

Find your Inspiration with 7 Inspiring TED Talks That’ll Help You Get Through Difficult Times.

One more thing: When you can be Inspired, Find a way to Inspire, because life is not easy, and sometimes, you may notice that someone may need you… They may need you to inspire them.

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Divorce Should Not Be Instinct!

Divorce can seem simple right…
Two people no longer love each other and chose to move on without one another. Life is too short,  divorce is the answer…

Sure…

Divorce nowadays is an answer to anything and everything gone wrong.

People don’t even try anymore and decide it’s Over because that *Spark* is no longer there, or that *Love* is lost …. but what is the meaning of Love?

Here we are in 2015…. Divorce rates are off the walls and people make that the solution to something so normal.

Love needs work….
Respect needs work….
Trust needs work…
CHILDREN….. need work, love, trust and example!

Are we showing an example to our children when we are divorcing?

This is not to say Divorce is never an answer to a broken marriage… but think twice about the reason why this marriage is breaking… and if divorce in fact is the solution …

In this day in age…. people don’t seem to think about what they are leaving behind and who they are affecting…. if you have Children. .. it is ten times harder and making a decision to get a divorce should not be taken lightly… Here is a quick video about what Divorce can do to children.

Think about Divorce…

Is it really the answer? 
Or do you just need work?

http://www.lifehack.org/276616/this-voice-the-child-divorce-will-make-you-rethink-the-meaning-marriage?mid=20150623&ref=mail&uid=393464&feq=daily

Let’s not forget…

Help The Bereaved!

Depression is not Easy!
Depression can be Deadly!

What can you do to help?

helping a friend who is depressed is not so simple but it can be. Little things matter when you are depressed.  Little things can help when you are feeling sad.

gestures can mean the World, words can change Everything, actions can seem so Big. So CARE….. it can be that simple. Lend a Hand.

7 simple ways of doing so is through Compliments, Being there, Checking up, Taking care, invitations, hugs, letting them be.

I don’t want to go in details because I really want you to read this article. It’s Great! It even came from a special source who was depressed.

I found that article and I felt like every word of it was what I needed ..
Anonymous

So take it Seriously….

http://www.bebraveandtalk.com/2015/02/12/7-ways-to-show-love-to-somene-with-anxietydepression/